CHAPTER
2
OVERVIEW
Are you ready to
be excited, even enthralled about where medicine and healing can go
if we have the passion and will to undertake a new Odyssey?
Would you like to
have access to tools which can go on serving you all your life?
How many of you,
like me, have experienced times when we felt held back, or for a time
did not know where to turn?
What kind of mixture
of factual material, knowledge of method, and creative thinking and
collaboration is waiting for us if we succeed in connecting with the
best thinkers and problem solvers in the world at the same time that
we realize that we are inherently like this ourselves?
How many of us have
underestimated ourselves?
Have you realized
the genius that lives inside you?
Would you like to?
When?
Could you be inspired
by exploring your own thinking and understandings?
Howard Gardiner
in his book Extraordinary Minds, has given us glimpses into
ways in which certain amazing people awakened and developed their own
special abilities.
This book is exactly
about an invitation to look and reflect, to confer and converse, and
to embark and continue in an exploration of all of the dimensions that
we are able to plumb in the totality of our lives.
We are truly in
life together, and we have unprecedented opportunities to draw upon
thousands of years of human history, as well as the present, with such
diversity as to awaken human creativity as we move to realise our own
potentials.
I spend some of
my time in my garden reflecting upon how pleasant it feels to experience
the fresh air, sunshine and lovely colours and shapes of nature.
At first vaguely,
and by a combination of mental pictures and a vision of a future, I
begin to see the shape of paths winding between rose plants and apple
trees.
Can I sense what
might come to be in this small corner of the earth?
What is ordinary,
and what is extraordinary?
What is a vision
and who are those who become visionaries?
Supposing this small
vision is a glimpse not only of a beautiful garden, but also a metaphor
for the growing and fulfilment of our lives!
What strange circumstances
resulted in my curiosity and my wish to make thoughts and visions come
true?
What language is
available to widely express the many forms of these thoughts?
What is a response?
What is responsibility? Are these words connected?
What are the many
responses that follow initial responses?
What is your response
to the words following?

Such are reflections
from a position of good health, but if these writings are for those
persons who have experienced utter exhaustion of mind, spirit or body,
or those who have watched this in someone close to you, do you wonder,
really wonder how you can reach the patterns that connect or the differences
that make a difference?
My vision, my thoughts,
my hopes and even passion reach out to those people who come to see
me.
Did you notice the
first letters of the key words written above?
Visions
awakening grace, thus, watch fruit lead me to bliss.
Each person is unique,
and each encounter with self or other happens in a form that has never
happened before and will never happen again.
There is no such
thing as a standard consultation!
I wish very much
for this to be an opportunity for a co-evolution of mutual growth interesting
learnings, and the shock of recognition, touched with inspiration
and awakened enthusiasm.
Are we really discovering
how to nurture and protect our bodies as well as enhancing the growth,
protection and wondrous improvement of our brains and minds?
To do this we may
need to understand the uniqueness of each person, the special contexts
and circumstances that surrounded that person as she or he travelled
the journey that brought her or him to the present moment.
So let us look at
the tools of excellence.
Intrigue, Curiosity,
and Neuro-linguistic approaches to achieving excellence.
In any culture,
native speakers of their own language bring forth a richness transmitted
from their parents and ancestors in particular contexts.
Much of this emerges
as lived experience.
Can we direct searches
for the ways of understanding explicitly what people do as they think
and talk about their lived experiences?
I suggest that
we can make these experiences accessible if any of us is interested
enough to undertake depth explorations as each person brings forth their
version of reality
After travelling
in partial darkness as to how I brought forth my own world, I became
challenged in the late 1970s to deepen my own searches.
In1981, Stephen
and Carol Lankton came to Adelaide to present analyses and practices
of the patterns of human thinking, speaking and communicating that had
been developed by Richard Bandler and John Grinder as Neuro Linguistic
Programming(NLP)
Bandler and Grinder
had particular backgrounds that opened them to a daring series of adventures
around how each persons skills had arisen.
Each saw many processes
which they describe as modelling.
Grinder had developed
survival tactics applicable to urban and non-urban environments, which
when added to extensive exploration of linguistics, gave
him access to non-verbal and verbal representations of his own experiences.
Bandler is described
as bold and daring in inventing and applying psychology
to everyday life.
My sense is that
Bandler was and is truly entrepreneurial in coming up with ways to facilitate
change.
Both were attentive
to the life and practises of Milton H Erickson, MD, as a master in evoking
changes in the lives of people who came to see him.
They noted the positive
attitudes and reframing methods of family therapist, Virginia Satir.
As well they drew
upon curious and at times confrontative methods of psychotherapist,
Frederick S Perls, noted for his descriptions of Gestalt Therapy
Therapist, Jay Haley,
had written about Ericksons amazing daring as a therapist, storyteller
and hypnotherapist.
It emerged that
Erickson and Haley were in dialogue with epistemologist, scientist and
anthropologist, Gregory Bateson, who also had a marriage with anthropologist
Margaret Mead.
Tales of other cultures
emerge when we visit them or they come to us.
Erickson suggested
that doctors need to be familiar with anthropology.
Many of these interesting
human beings were inspired by the work of the others and in a climate
where Joseph Campbell was elaborating his descriptions of humankinds
myths.
From Santiago in
Chile, Humberto Maturana had drawn upon his own life experiences and
biological training to try and grasp the nature and functions of cognition,
and with Francesco Varela, coined the name autopoiesis (meaning
the making of self)
Their books Autopoiesis
and Cognition and The Tree of Knowledge carried on
from Batesons Mind and Nature
What richness and
diversity was brewing!
Underneath these
human mysteries is the matter of consciousness.
We know that each
of us lives in awareness, but do not yet know how this is so.
It appears to be
a property of the complex arrangement of our living nervous system.
How this could emerge
as my ability to experience the notion of myself as a conscious being
?
The notion of other
human beings being in a similar state, continues to be probed by such
contemporary thinkers as David Chalmers, Paul Davies, and Ken Wilber,
following in a tradition of many philosophers who have left us records
of their attempts to wonder Who are we? Where did
we come from? and What kind of universe is this?,
that in time gives rise to consciousness?
The structure of
language can be studied and we can pay particular and detailed attention
to ourselves as people who attempt to turn their lived experience into
language as part of ever increasing sophistication of communication.
What do people mean
with the words, intonations and sentence constructions that they bring
forth in every moment.
Many cities like
Adelaide have a writers week and attendees are entertained as
they hear writers talking about what happens in the processes
of writing.
I honour the process
of reflecting upon matters and conversing to
diversify and enrich ideas and meanings.
The conversing
enhances my reflecting , and the reflecting
gives rise to the wish for more conversations.
Thus the intelligence
and eventually wisdom available to people is found within these processes.
NLP is one method
of specific examination of the processes as they appear in human-to-human
communications.
How is it that children
have such spontaneous curiosity and playful explorations of their worlds?
How is it that a
curious child could become to used to a version of thinking such that
wonder and delight seem to have disappeared for her or him.
It seems that many
people describe life as boring or humdrum.
This phenomenon
is explored in Jostein Gaarders book Sophies World
Gaarder presents
letters from a philosopher, who in writing to Sophie, says, I
hope this is not happening to you Sophie!, explaining that he
does not want Sophie to take the world for granted.
What is it that
we take for granted and no longer regard with wonder?
How does this happen,
and is there a remedy for it?
Bradford Keeney
carries on the work of cybernetic thinkers such as Gregory Bateson in
his fascinating book Aesthetics of Change.
Bandler and Grinder
called NLP The Structure of Magic, and I like the choice
of this name because there is such richness available in our living
as to seem magical.
It is my experience
that exploring this territory awakened a revelation and revolution in
my own beliefs about myself.
It is paradoxical
and wonderful to experience shaking which lets fall the
acquired flotsam and jetsam of ideas which somehow held me back, and
at the same time
awakens creative
and lateral thinking which takes me forward with inspiration and enthusiasm
in my present and future.
Let us then proceed
on a journey of creativity and intrigue, filled with thoughtfulness
and humour and as we go, let us decipher our own mysteries!
In our lives, we
have incorporated an amazing array of information, which we appreciate
and apprehend as memory, of things we see, hear, feel, smell and taste.
For these things
we have linguistic equivalents, since we live in language along with
our sensory experiences.
In this sense, our
living memory is that which is conserved in our minds and available
to make sense of whatever we come across.
The NLP authors
refer to this as maps or mind-maps, which we use to find
our way through our lives and domains of existence.
They say,
People operate out of their internal maps
Each persons
maps are created by that person, through sensory experience and the
perturbations of the persons concepts by these experiences.
In this, the persons
unique history brings forth their particular memories and ways of thinking.
Each persons
access to problem solving methods is shaped by that personal history.
Thus Lankton says
People make the best choices for themselves at any given moment
In a sense we cant
make choices that are not available to us.
As Gregory Bateson
writes, In the world of the living, events take their course or
courses, because they are restrained from taking other courses
There are consequences
from having too narrow a range of choices!
I have often said,
If you always do what you usually do, you will probably get what you
usually get or asked what is not in your life that you wish
was, and what is in your life that you wish wasnt?
I claim that the
picturesque living experiences are a kind of metaphor or series of metaphors.
Metaphor is a description
of something represented in language capturing some interesting aspect
or likeness as it arises in us as a conscious concept. It can be novel
and creative and tends to evoke particular responses from each of us.
Writers use metaphors to help us capture the vividness of lived experience,
and certainly succeed when a person says, "I liked the book more
than I liked the film!"
Stories as an early
part of a childs experience can add to the richness of that childs
life, and a lifetime of storying and story telling leads to literary
diversity and enhanced linguistic abilities in individuals.
Of course stories,
anecdotes, poems, jokes and songs are not only the stuff of our communication
to ourselves and each other, but they give rise to the discourses of
every kind of human history, and to the culture within myths, legends
and scientific thinking.
We experience the
themes, events, challenges, and archetypes, as applicable to our own
life events.
As we identify with
heroes or antiheroes, we may be inspired, terrified, fascinated or revolted
by what people experience, and gain insights about the different contexts
in which these happenings occurred.
Thus can our own
visions and hopes for our own lives be revisited!
When we use metaphors
in what we could call therapy, we need to understand that the explanation
or metaphor used to awaken ideas in the person is not the person herself
or himself.
Meeting a person
at her or his model of the world. (Congruency)
After a certain
amount of exposure to the lives of people, each of us can begin to realize
how important it is to meet a person at her or his model of the
world
I believe that without
a willingness to explore the models of the world held by each other
person, that we face great difficulties in resolving conflicts and operational
difficulties.
To create an open
space in which adequate dialogue can occur requires conscious
thinking about what we are hoping to do.
Each participant
can maintain invitations to greater understanding, in the setting of
respecting each other and treating each other well.
For a company, corporation,
local organization, or even a family, the idea of a mission statement
can be aired in an open space with the notion that each
participant is equally valued, welcome and involved in a journey to
freedom of expression.
In order to respect
messages from people, we need to listen carefully and seek clarity about
their messages.
In my estimation,
many people are concerned about their own viewpoints and at risk of
not adequately appreciating the viewpoints of others.
This is graphically
illustrated in Parliament.
Lankton writes
Teach choice, and never attempt to take choice away
Milton H Erickson
could be described as a multiply handicapped man, who became an extraordinary
observer of people, a master of linguistics, and a radical entrepreneur
of problem solving for people who felt stuck.
He deeply believed
that The resources that people need lie in their own personal
histories
When we are as conscious
of the importance of peoples talents and resources as we are of
what seem to be their problems, new openings abound!
We trigger responses
in each other, and can progress to do so constructively.
Our description
of our lives and worlds can inadvertently emerge as constrained
or restricted.
Is it possible to
reframe life ups and downs as opportunities, and the whole world as
a place of abundance?
Is it hyperbole
to live as though life is abundance arising from abundance with
abundance remaining?
How can a tone deaf
man with a rare form of colour-blindness, dyslexia, and afflicted by
ongoing muscle weakness after poliomyelitis in his early teens regard
himself as rich and fortunate, as Erickson experienced himself?
Surely this can
only come about when he realizes that other flexibilities are still
available, and crucial choices are still available to him or his clients.
This is an invitation
to respond to Ericksons comment, We all start from a very
young age to become increasingly rigid, only we dont know it
We may see this
in others and overlook it in ourselves.
Lanktons next
principle is A person cant not respond
Since our sensory
system picks up what it pays attention to, it cant
not respond.
One thing that really
matters is What is the response?
We may not get to
find out what is the response of other, but it is there to ponder!
Whatever is the
persons inner appreciation of that subject can determine what
kind of outcome occurs.
It is not unreasonable
for a therapist (if there is such a person) to say to the client If
you think Im getting it wrong, please be willing to let me know
At least in part,
this reflects the words of Jones, Theories of mental health practitioners
may sometimes hurt the client
What about the kind
of steps to take?
If it is hard
work, reduce it down
In solving problems
it is useful to reduce them to smaller or more manageable pieces.
Underlying the above
ideas let me repeat Korzybskis words
The map is
not the territory, and the name is not the thing named
As well, he writes
Naming is not knowing
By following the
above ideas, you are declaring that you are a gnostic (an explorer of
knowing) for which the modern name is epistemologist (a person who studies
how we know what we know
Greetings
fellow epistemologist!
In welcoming the
possibilities that each human life can be more fulfilling, I will necessarily
repeat important things in slightly different ways.
I am recognizing
as often as is appropriate, the ways that human beings have created
the discourses about lived experience, as well as the creative expressions
that give rise to elegant fictions.
I am expressing
a kind of love of the stories, anecdotes, poems, songs, musical forms
and jokes that come to me.
The appreciation
or emotional responses do not necessarily need decoding, but the modellers
in describing NLP, recognize the possibility of decoding the elements
of sensory experience as they appear and connecting them to the living
memory that makes sense of them.
Language has its
Sounds (phonics and phonetics)
This can include
intonation,
rhythm, tune and
melody.
Sequences (syntax)
Meanings (semantics)
Symbols (semiotics)
this includes letters as well as symbolic shapes.
Quantity and number
and the operations of validation in their use (mathematics)
In this latter territory
we appear to encounter some properties of matter, energy and the cosmos.
(Laws of chemistry and physics)
For example, glass
can never cut diamond and diamond can always cut glass.
We can consider
the words as they are said or written (surface structure), and the individual
meanings that arise in the mind of any speaker, writer, hearer or reader
(deep structure)
Until this way of
describing human experience became clear to me, I was in danger of thinking
that I knew what ancient writers meant.
Consider the significance
of what I have just written in terms of Jewish, Christian and Islamic
scriptures.
Should God decide
to reveal herself or himself to human beings, those human beings produce
a surface structure as they speak or write of what they
supposed they experienced.
Here surface
structure simply means the words themselves!
Any one of us may
proclaim that meditation or prayer gave us access to God.
In my description
this is a kind of deep structure
In the writings
of Ken Wilber, we discover that he needed Four quadrants
and multi-levels to attempt to cover what is possible for
us in every form of our consciousness.
In our lives we
continue to
DRAW DISTINCTIONS,
PLAY WITH CONCEPTS
AND METAPHORS,
MAKE CONNECTIONS
LINEALLY AND WITH MULTIPLE PARTICIPATING ELEMENTS,
DESCRIBE CATEGORIES
AND CLASSIFICATIONS,
DANCE WITH PATTERNS,
PARTICULARLY APPRECIATING CYBERNETICS WITH FEEDBACK AND FEEDFORWARD
REGULATIONS,
EXPLORE THE DIMENSIONS
OF LANGUAGE WHICH GOES META TO ITSELF, AND ELABORATES ITS OWN DOMAINS
OF OPERATION
RECOGNIZE THE
INEVITABLITY OF EVOLUTION, SO THAT WE CANNOT AVOID STAGES IN OUR LIVES
WONDER ABOUT
THE CREATIVE ADVANCES INTO NOVELTY.
In my field of medicine
I pay much attention to the probability that anything I have learned
is probably only a small part of the subject addressed.
It is as though
I have glimpsed one part of something more elegant and complex than
I could initially grasp.
In our lives we
can be excited and curious about how we know what we know
and how we can draw upon ways of knowing that have intrigued
others.
In my life as a
medical thinker and physician, I have been intrigued by the accident
or happenstance of any discovery, and the later excitement
when it turns out that the discovery has other elements and applications.
Carl Sagans
television series Cosmos inspired me, and his book of that
series and his book The Demon Haunted World is valuable
and helpful.
A thinker such as
Paul Davies as physicist and philosopher wonders if we keep on discovering
something like principles of the physical cosmos and in
molecular biology I am often amazed by these seeming synchronicities.
So powerful is my
intrigue, that I keep looking at the medical literature using Medline(entrez-pubmed)
using different key words to extend the success rate in finding connections.
Now all of this
is self-evident, but after I read Gregory Batesons Mind
and Nature I began to understand that re-reading basic statements
and reflecting upon them is somehow both powerful and enlightening.
If any of us can
say So that is how I do it, we have probably moved from
a literalist or fundamentalist position (about anything) to wonderment
about our own processes and a movement to overthrow our own rigidities.
When we put down
a thought it is immediately available for consideration.
If written and shown
to others, they too may have openings and opportunities.
Dairies such as
those of Samuel Pepys and Anais Nin reveal amazing details of their
lives and times, and the contexts in which they lived.
I was captivated
by Claire Tomalin talking about her preparations and intrigue when writing
about Pepys.
She was struck by
Pepys willingness to record every detail even when he might be
judged for his many flaws and personal dilemmas.
Mary Wollstonecraft
wrote her own novels and descriptions, making it possible for Claire
Tomalin to capture much of Marys story in The Life and Death
of Mary Wollstonecraft, and later Lyndall Gordon has written about
Mary in Vindication, A Life of Mary Wollstonecraft
What passion and
warmth are available in these women exploring Mary naive and honest
stories!
So too can Jane
Austens life be set alongside her novels. See Jane Austin,
a life Claire Tomalin, 1997
A goal is to invite
ourselves to be unafraid.
We are challenged
by the words of Alexander Popes poetic lines
Placed on
this isthmus of a middle state,
A being darkly wise
and rudely great:
With too much knowledge
for the Sceptic side
With too much weakness
for the Stoics pride,
He hangs between;
in doubt to act, or rest;
In doubt to deem
himself a God, or Beast,
In doubt his mind
or body to prefer;
Born but to die,
and reasoning but to err.
Can we respond with
optimism at the same time as we reflect in a thoughtful kind of scepticism?
We can decide to
draw flow charts, and diagrams, daring to fill in more areas, noting
any gaps and seeing them as cues to search further.
The artist portrays
colour, form and diverse patterns to reach our vision and aesthetic
responses, while composers bring forth harmony, melody and touch the
ears of our souls (or jar them!)
Let us face life
with enthusiasm and wonder as we dare to believe that we are in the
process of making a world fit for the potential good that protects,
saves, invents and co-creates.
Yet what is
goodness?
As far back as the
recorded beginnings of Greek Philosophy, we find Plato asking this question.
Every one of us
has it in us to be glad and to wish well for others, and ourselves and
we can turn the wish into reality by our actions.
As we do this each
of us has the possibility of wondering, what constitutes excellence?
The authors of NLP
writings claim to access excellence.
A challenge is to
awaken the territory of ethics in everything we do in our living and
in our capacity to touch beingness
Is it really possible
to reach higher and more loving states?
If we could do this
we need to verify with others that we can agree about certain ethical
matters that really work for the good of all.
Is it possible that
one day we will be able to integrate all our levels and all our concepts?
What is integral
consciousness and integral living?
Ken Wilber is an
American philosopher who has looked in such depth and care at the history
of human emergence as to make the most coherent and potentially integrative
framework for utter fullness of our lives.
I, like Ken Wilber,
can see more broadly how our modern conflictual dilemmas fit in the
evolution that never ceases.
Ken has dared to
set himself and colleagues (and through them, all of us to explore the
integral possibilities.
I will invite you
many times to join in this exploration.
You might like to
look at Ken Wilbers website!
http://www.IntegralNaked.org
and
http://www.shambala.com